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Memorial Day All Year Round

5/22/2013

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When was the last time you spent Memorial Day cleaning then picnicking on the graves of your dearly departed? While the custom may still run strong in some pockets of the country, most everyone I know has little relationship to graveside rituals these days. We live far dispersed from our ancestors, and rising cremation rates mean many folks don't have that "final resting place."

As we head into Memorial Day this year, I want to share a few inspiring memorial tributes that aren't limited to a specific date or place. 

Monday Hearts for Madalene  
This amazing project is a tribute by Page Hodel for her beloved partner who died of ovarian cancer in 2006 at the age of 46. When they were first falling in love, Page began constructing hearts for Madalene, left on her doorstep each Monday. "I wanted her to find a sweet little 'I love you' waiting for her when she went out the door to go to work on Monday morning," Page says. "To start her week with a visual reminder of our beautiful love."

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Before Madalene died, Page promised that she would continue making Monday hearts for Madalene for the rest of her life - and so she has. There have been 407 thus far. You can view them all on her web site where you can sign up to get each week's spectacular creation emailed to you.

Now contained in a book (sales benefit a women's cancer project in the Bay Area), the hearts have connected thousands of people around the world to the expressions of love that are Madalene's legacy.

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Loss and the Sweetness of Memory
When Teresa Jordan sat down to watch a movie, she didn't expect to be reminded of her mother, who died nearly 40 years ago. But the film stirred something and inspired her to make a short film of her own for Mother's Day: Perfume, which she describes as "an illustrated moment about loss and the sweetness of memory."

With musical accompaniment by her husband Hal Cannon, this tender little slice of death-in-life provoked personal remembrances among many who viewed it. 

Teresa's film found its way to my in box via my favorite blog, Go Ask Alice...when she's 94.  Writer Andrea Carlisle created this on-line journal as a living memorial to her mother, Alice, who moved across the country to reside in an assisted living facility she has dubbed The Place. Andrea uses the blog "to keep track of some moments with her that I don't ever want to forget". 

The sweetness of memory, indeed, for the loves still with us, and the ones we have lost.

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Thank you to Page, Lily, Teresa, Hal, Andrea, and Alice.
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5/23/2013 03:39:42 am

I'm totally moved by Page and Madelene's continuing love story. Their ritual of love that transcends physical being is with me and in me now. Love does conquer all. Cheers to you Holly for making this known to us. You shine!

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Holly
5/28/2013 12:21:16 pm

Charlotte, glad you found this enduring love story as inspiring as I did. Thanks for carrying them forward into your world.

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Sally Shannon
5/28/2013 11:18:12 am

Holly - thank you for bringing Page and Madalene's story to your network. I found out about their story from Suzette Sherman, founder of sevenponds.com. I get Page's Monday Love (what I call it) every Monday. Page has workshops, too. So check it out. I also forwarded yesterday's heart to Jerrigrace of Final Passages. Our community continues to inter-connect. Love, Sally

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Holly
5/28/2013 12:24:51 pm

Hi Sally, It's really wonderful how Page has built such a community around this project. Our culture is so hungry for beauty, meaning, and authentic connection, as you say. Thanks for all you do foster our interconnections. Holly

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